Thanks to the Enhanced Respite Day Program and the support of his mom, Amy Cocks, Devin Calahesin has found a safe and welcoming environment where he can truly be himself.
When Devin Calahesin finished high school, he and his family knew they wanted to find new opportunities for him to stay active and engaged in his community.
Devin, who lives in Athabasca in northern Alberta, has limited verbal speech but has many skills and strengths that support his ability to live with some independence, and he really enjoys being around others. A graduate at age 21, Devin was ready for a new routine and a place where he could socialize and continue to build his independence.
For Devin’s mother, Amy Cocks, finding the right fit meant finding a safe, welcoming environment where Devin could be himself. Amy first learned about the Assisted Living Alberta (ALA) Enhanced Respite Day Program through a social worker at the Stollery Children’s Hospital in Edmonton who helped connect the family with community resources, including a local social worker, to support their ongoing needs.
“The social workers were a major support in connecting us to local services,” says Cocks. “I had no idea the Enhanced Respite Day Program even existed.”
At first, Amy and Devin weren’t sure what to expect. After going through some assessments, it was determined that Devin would be a good fit for the program, should he choose to attend. The Athabasca Enhanced Respite Day Program runs three days a week from 9 a.m. – 3:30 p.m. and welcomes adults 18 and older, including many seniors.
Cocks says they quickly felt supported.
“The ladies at the Enhanced Respite Day Program in Athabasca were super excited and helpful with completing the steps to get him into the program,” Amy said.
And now, about five months later, the program has become an important part of Devin’s life.
“He really enjoys it,” says Amy. “He likes how calm it is. Usually he’ll go in, make himself a tea, start a puzzle or craft, and join in with the other activities, whether it’s exercise, bingo, or something else that day.
“He’s comfortable there.”
Amy adds that staff have taken the time to learn what Devin enjoys and makes sure he feels included.
“They find things there for him that he likes,” Amy adds. “They let Devin be himself.”
Enid Desroches is an ALA therapy assistant with the program and says it has been wonderful having Devin there.
“The longer Devin has been here and the more he has gotten to know us, the more independent he has become in making choices,” says Desroches, who adds that Devin enjoys activities such as nature walks, birding, and learning about local wildlife.
He also benefits from visits by the hospital’s Indigenous Wellness Coordinator, who brings art projects for him to enjoy.
She adds that Devin has a kind heart and enjoys the company of seniors, and is always eager to lend a hand, including accompanying clients to community outings and special events.
"Every client who has attended has appreciated Devin as a person — his sense of humour, kind heart and willingness to help — and has noticed his compassion for others. These are all wonderful qualities to which we can all aspire.”
For Cocks, seeing her son find a place where he feels accepted has been very meaningful.
“Knowing that he’s found a place he’s comfortable with means a lot.”
She hopes sharing Devin’s story will encourage other families to explore similar supports available in their communities.
“My advice is to reach out to the resources that are provided to you,” she adds.
“Even if you’re not sure if they are the right fit, it’s worth checking them out.”
According to Cocks, the Enhanced Respite Day Program is more than just a place for Devin to spend the day. It is a place where he can be himself, build meaningful friendships, and form connections that have become an important part of his life.
“I’m very grateful for what they’ve done for us.”
To learn more about similar programs in Alberta, speak to a health care provider in your area.
